Learn how to travel safer as a queer couple with Amazing Race winners and fiancés Will & James.
Traveling to a new place is a big step for anyone, but there are even more moving pieces to navigate when traveling as an LGBTQ+ person. Queer travelers are oftentimes faced with a multitude of concerns that require additional thought and research before booking their next vacation. Some of these concerns include knowing the laws surrounding the LGBTQ+ topics and people of a country, deciphering which part of the destination is gay-friendly, understanding the culture and how they will be perceived, and deciding whether or not they will feel safe.
Play the video below for access to the full recording, or keep reading to get the 5 key lessons we learned from the event.
1. Do your research
As experienced travelers, Will & James know that the best tool you can have while abroad is knowledge, and it all starts with trip prep. Ways you can do this include:
Connecting with local LGBTQ+ people via Facebook groups, Instagram, etc. Getting connected than ever in the age of social media, use this as a tool to learn the lived experiences of queers from around the world to help assess where you’d feel safe/comfortable traveling to
Google for recent events which may reflect changes in a country’s level of safety
2. Look for the difference between law and culture
Some countries have laws that are discriminatory against LGBTQ+ people, but the modern-day culture doesn’t practice them and is very welcoming to the queer community. Signs a destination may be more accepting than their laws include:
Queer-friendly bars, businesses, and accommodations
LGBTQ+ community events
‘Gayborhoods,’ or areas known for their queer community and establishments (think: Castro District in San Fransisco, The Pink Triangle in Scotland, etc.)
3. Prioritize awareness
A big part of traveling is making an effort to understand the culture that you’re visiting and being respectful towards them. As Americans, we’re lucky to have the ability to be out and proud, but it isn’t that way everywhere. Will & James said it perfectly, “You can’t travel and bring your American values to another country and say, ‘This is the way it should be.’”
When traveling, it’s in your best interest to do your research and understand more about where you’re going. Then, you can adjust to the culture and climate and have the right expectations for your trip.
4. Stay true to yourself
Owning what makes you different could have an effect beyond what you ever imagined and inspire others for years to come.
For example, when Will was rocking heels around the house on America’s Next Top Model, he experienced homophobic comments from a fellow contestant – and it hurt. He had recently come out and was still finding his confidence as an openly gay man. But he took a deep breath, regrouped and wore his heels to panel (and looked damn good!). This prompted Tyra to ask about the situation and educate the contestants and millions of viewers on homophobia.
The LGBTQ+ community loves to travel and is much larger than you may have thought. With the internet, there are millions of resources at your fingertips that will provide you with the knowledge you need for safe, fun travel and social media allows you to connect with other members of the LGBTQ+ community across the globe.
Another way you can travel safely and with a community you know is LGBTQ+ friendly (and proud of it!) is by traveling with Will & James on one of their international group trips in 2022. The duo will be leading groups full of proud LGBTQ+ travelers on unforgettable experiences hiking through New Zealand, living pura vida in Costa Rica, and taking in the culture in Bali. Will we see you there?